You don't have to use the bars, You can meet and attract women anywhere my friend. The first thing is make sure you are confident when you approach women,and maintain eye contact. Also conversation is a key as well, as long as it is interesting. Try to stay calm and relaxed. Also do research and get help advice and tips from people who are successful in the area, not just anyone.
I guess it's possible anywhere really, if you see someone who really takes your fancy. Maybe just ask her a question? Pick up some ingredients you like and ask her what she thinks would go well with it. Can always ask her to come over and try it.
Or you can go to any shop really, pick up something nice (perfume, jewelry etc.) and say you’re buying it for your mum, sis whatever and ask her what she thinks. Makes you seem like a nice caring guy. Just be friendly, and do it when it's comfortable and non-threatening to her. Do it casually, if you're looking at the same stuff in an aisle, just strike up a convo about anything just to break the ice. And yeah, if she responds well, ask if you could meet up with her some time for a drink or something. Get her number.
Or you can go to any shop really, pick up something nice (perfume, jewelry etc.) and say you’re buying it for your mum, sis whatever and ask her what she thinks. Makes you seem like a nice caring guy. Just be friendly, and do it when it's comfortable and non-threatening to her. Do it casually, if you're looking at the same stuff in an aisle, just strike up a convo about anything just to break the ice. And yeah, if she responds well, ask if you could meet up with her some time for a drink or something. Get her number.
Assess whether she is checking you out. Perhaps she's smiling or talking to her friends while looking at you. Many guys don't pursue in this situation because they don't believe what they are seeing or they are waiting for the girl to approach. Yes, she is checking you out and no, she will definitely not approach you. However, she will appreciate it if you send a drink or a plate of nachos her way with a few chuckles and smiles from you. Then go and own up and start talking.
Be careful if she is alone. This is a tough call. She may be waiting for someone. Possibly the girl of your dreams will make it obvious if she's waiting for someone by looking towards the door often. If this is the case, don't pursue. If not, well, she just isn't that insecure to be by herself and is most likely to appreciate a good chat, whether or not another guy is coming to meet her. Hey, what's to lose by at least trying?
Decide what it means if she is dressed provocatively. Women who are interested in meeting someone might wear bold, solid colors like black, white or red. They also typically put a lot of effort into their hair, makeup and shoe selection. Mind you, women often do this for women too, so don't make assumptions. Women don't like looking as if they've spent a day at the construction site when they go out to enjoy themselves. So shelve the assumptions and look lively. If her clothes give off signals, you have probably been drinking a little earlier than usual. Look for the woman in the clothes, not at the clothes on the woman.
Understand what it means if she is looking around a lot. If she's in her circle of friends and makes an effort to look at the guys passing by, you've got a potential pick-up. Mind you, you might have a group of women doing this all at once. Select the one that meets with your idea of fun and good talk. Use your commonsense. Sometimes you may be roped into engaging with all of them as they check you out for a friend in that group. Be obliging.
React quickly if she looks bored or annoyed with her company. The guys she came with are belligerent and touching her and she has no out. This is your best situation to be the knight in shining armor. You don't even need visual contact! Just walk over there and say, "How'd you like to come sit with me/us?" or "There's an empty seat next to me if you need it." You can skip down to the conversation part if you're lucky enough to find one of these. Ask her what on earth she was discussing with those bullish guys and get her a good stiff drink.
You've already established that she is available, so keep telling yourself that. This next step is key. If she looks at you and you look away nervously, good luck to you. You've already made a bad first impression. Keep a relaxed, flirtatious gaze. Don't stare and don't lock up and look like a psycho. Also don't flash a huge, fake grin. Just move your head however feels natural and smile a bit--whatever feels natural. If she looks away shyly, that's good. If she gives you a seductive stare, that's even better. If she looks away and looks freaked out, better find someone else.
